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This past summer, I had the opportunity to visit Atlanta. I've been to Atlanta several times, throughout my life. Visiting as a woman in her mid 30's, about to relaunch educational program. 
This trip had a special meaning.  To see the state of growth within the black community, shown so strongly there. Is a great source of inspiration. I can honestly say, I didn't know how to reach my full potential. This was problematic to my spirit. I know greatness is accessible, I just had no idea how to reach it.
   Being in a great space again (mentally) I am ready to go after all of my goal again.
One point of getting things in order was to get active again. I am sure many of you have seen the picture where I gained a lot of weight. I was depressed, emotional eating was a big thing for me.

A lot of people have asked what were the steps I took. First one was a mental step. I was tired of being sick, and tired.  I start to move (get active),  I was in a place of isolation. I was moving, and operating in a space of darkness. I had to change almost everything. The places I was hanging out, some of the people I was spending time around.  Things I was giving my attention to.


 As a youth I naturally had a great body. Unfortunately I did not know about the importance of eating right, and working out. As a young woman who enjoyed clubbing a little too much (the knot on my head is evidence). I picked up some of unhealthy habits. Eating out late night, drinking way too much. And of course a love of greasy fried food. What else do you use to soak up the alcohol?

I took on some very unhealthy coping mechanisms. I was an emotional eater, and dependent on alchool as an escape from my problems.  A result was being diagnosed with high blood pressure. I knew I had to make a change. Plus falling down stair in a night club was a big wake up call.



Well I was in Atlanta I had the chance to a photo-shoot with my Sorority Sister Cat Harper ( I am an honorary member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority Inc.).

While I was excited to do this shoot, I was nervous about the images I was putting forth. While I've been on my journey of reengaging, I am starting to fall back in love with my self. When you feel good, taking pictures is really fun.  When given the opportunity to shoot, I had a vision. Wearing nothing but a shirt. Now I wanted this shoot to be classy but sexy (I am 34).

This was a  challenge. I have so many young girls who follow me. I did not want to disappoint their Mothers, or the church Mother's 😁.

One thing that bothers me is seeing so many young women. Being overly sexual in their pictures.
 I want convey something simple but beautiful without showing too much.
It's OK to be beautiful but make sure you have a beautiful mind, and spirit to match. Also make sure the words that come out of your mouth have meaning.


Thank you to Cat Harper Photography https://www.catharperphotography.com/ for this beautiful images.

Thank you Rachel Reid for doing my makeup. https://www.rachelreidbeauty.com/ 


 

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